Here is one to think about...Propostion 4

The members of an ideal family are loving, have open communication and respect one another. It is a sad truth that not all families experience this ideal relationship within their families. In the United States alone, there were 4.1 million cases of family violence reported and were subject of criminal investigation. About six million children experience some kind of abuse or neglect in this country. These statistics are startling.

For the third time in four years, Proposition 4 is a ballot measure which would put some teens in danger. Proposition 4 would require parental notification 48 hours in advance of a teenage girl terminating a pregnancy. Parents of course are concerned with the lives of their teenagers. Most teens do go to their parents when challenged with an unintentional pregnancy. The no on prop 4 website could not have said it any better. “But in the real world, parental notification laws don't work. No law can mandate family communication.”

How does prop 4 put girls in danger? Well, in family abuse cases, a teen in this situation may experience more abuse from her parents. Additionally, some girls, in trying to avoid their parents being notified, may choose to self-terminate a pregnancy, which would endanger their health, OR they may try to seek an abortion from another place. Some may seek out illegal “back-alley” abortions. Some may go across the border into Mexico or attempt suicide. Some girls may suffer life-threatening injuries from an illegal abortion or perhaps die.

I am a parent of a teenager. My husband and I have a very close and loving relationship with her. If she were ever in a situation where she felt she needed to terminate a pregnancy, it would be our biggest hope that she would come to us to discuss her options. Do I agree with abortion? Well, I personally would never have one unless it was the case of health or rape. BUT that is my CHOICE. Every woman should have a choice. However, let’s remember that this measure is about teens, not Row vs. Wade. Abortion is legal. I feel there should be regulations on how people use abortions. It should not be used as a form of birth control. That is irresponsible and is a completely new topic. Maybe next time…

Here is a link to the Prop 4 section of the California Voter Information Guide. I urge you to read all of its components including the title and summary, analysis, arguments and rebuttals and the text of the proposed law. http://www.voterguide.sos.ca.gov/title-sum/prop4-title-sum.htm

Feel free to look at the rest of the propositions on the left side. Read them closely and make an informed decision. You will feel good when you do.

I urge you to look deep into the proposition and vote NO on prop 4!